3 Comments:

  1. salam , first thing is inshaAllah Allah help all thoese who fear Allah , any muslimah who is scared of this problem on her first night with her husbad should paray two rakat of salatay hajat (asking) . and should ask for a happy life after marrige , InshaAllah ALLAH will help regardless of bleeding happened or not ,coz if ALLAH wants u and ur husband will stay happy 2gether , there are many muslimah which really bleeded on ist night but still they and thier husband dont stay happy 2gethor , INSHAALLH ALLAH will help , there is a saying of prophet mohammad (may ALLAH bless him) that ALLAH says that i treat my fallower in the same way as he/she is expecting of me .

    so if u expect and have iman that ALLAH will save ur weeding then ALLAH will save it regardless of watever happen on first night , inshaALLAH we just need iman in this that ALLAH IS THE BEST AND HE IS THE BEST SAVER OF EVERYTHING .

    ALLAH HAFIZ

    Comment by raza — January 3, 2009 @ 11:21 am

  2. Asalam Aleiykum my name is zulaiha and i am 20 years old. Recently i have got engaged to a man that my family chose for me. I am happy because i realise that my parents know what is best for me. The reason i am writing this is because i heard about hymen recently from a married friend and i am very worried. I was browsing the internet for information when i came across this article. When i was 13 i started to menstruate and we had a health session at school where the girls were given tampons. I tried the tampon but found it uncomfortable so whenever i menstruated i used cloth before my sister gave me pads. By hearing about hymen i am very worried that i may have broken my hymen. I am very scared. On my wedding night if i do not bleed then i am scared that i will be accused of not being a virgin. I fear that if i say that it might have broken due to tampons, then i would not be believed. I am scared and i pray to allah that my hymen is still there and that i bleed. I am very scared and confused please help me.

    Comment by zulaiha — April 25, 2009 @ 11:36 am

  3. his sister i am to prone to this belief but itis not true all u have to do isshow ure husbandto be the facts andif he doesntbeliev u then u deserve someone better

    Comment by iman — May 21, 2009 @ 12:09 am

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